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November 1, 2016

Why Start A Blog?

I am busy. I have three kids, three and under. I certainly have my hands full (and everyone is so sweet to remind me of that when I go anywhere in public). I have a wonderful and supportive husband, many amazing friends, a great church, and the most amazing life. But, I can’t help but feel the need to do something. Do something for myself. Something creative, something that may encourage me to get out of leggings or workout clothes (#SAHM), and maybe wear makeup more than just once a week. Yes, I just put away two laundry baskets of clothes that was washed on Friday, and I have two more loads of laundry that will be done soon (laundry is my nemesis). I haven’t wiped down the counters from breakfast. And my oldest decided today would be a good day to not nap, despite my most convincing attempts, even though we will be out late tonight.

But it’s ok. Life is a little messy. If I can survive the day-to-day with these young kids, then I think I can survive a blog on top of it. Because mama needs something for herself sometimes. I know that if I do something for me, it will make me a better mom. A better wife. And a better friend.
 

(From trunk or treat last week)

These people. They are my everything. 

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Comments

  1. Lindsay Waldron says

    November 1, 2016 at 8:25 pm

    I can’t wait to read more!

    Reply
    • nicolewarnerblog_p1mxd7 says

      November 1, 2016 at 8:52 pm

      Thanks for following along!

      Reply
  2. Marcus says

    November 2, 2016 at 10:51 am

    The coolest woman in the whole world!

    Reply
  3. Naomi Libby says

    November 2, 2016 at 12:07 pm

    I’ll be here following along! Love hearing other moms share their perfectly imperfect moments. It reminds me that we’re all in this together. 🙂

    Reply
    • nicolewarnerblog_p1mxd7 says

      November 2, 2016 at 12:15 pm

      Thanks so much Naomi! ?

      Reply
  4. Kera says

    November 3, 2016 at 8:14 pm

    Good for you carving out time for yourself!! I always think to myself that I need to, but between Layton, working 40+ hours a week, house work, laundry, and cooking, I don’t know where to squeeze it in. Plus, if your like me, you feel guilty for taking those moments. Props to you for making it happen!

    Reply
    • Nicole Warner says

      November 3, 2016 at 8:17 pm

      It’s so hard to find time! And even harder to do without feeling guilty. But I just keep reminding myself that I am a better person when I put a little focus on myself. And if I can be a better mother and wife, then it is worth it to find the time! You should do it girl!

      Reply
  5. Jason Shook says

    November 3, 2016 at 8:47 pm

    It’s a very good opening blog. You have set the stage perfect for future reading. Good luck !!!!

    Reply
    • Nicole Warner says

      November 3, 2016 at 9:02 pm

      Thanks so much!

      Reply
  6. Whitney says

    November 3, 2016 at 10:12 pm

    Couldn’t help but lol about your laundry status, as I sit here taking a break from folding my 5 loads from Saturday… Love the idea of your creative outlet! Keep it coming!!

    Reply
    • Nicole Warner says

      November 3, 2016 at 10:19 pm

      I know right! I just got those 4 loads put away yesterday. And have another load I need to do ? woes of motherhood haha

      Reply
  7. J Pepper says

    November 4, 2016 at 12:53 am

    This is awesome. Everybody needs an outlet, and I’m glad you found yours. Looking forward to your future entries!

    Reply
    • Nicole Warner says

      November 4, 2016 at 1:06 am

      Thanks so much J!

      Reply
  8. Suzanne Sepe says

    November 4, 2016 at 1:18 am

    I am not necessarily in your tribe but could be an elder. I know you have family but I am an objective empath. Been there, done that sort of , but no judgement.
    Support and love to you. I have a hard time finding time for self and spirit now! I am
    certain it is crucial and honor your awareness.

    Reply
    • Nicole Warner says

      November 4, 2016 at 1:28 am

      You’re the best Suzanne! You totally get it. The quest for well-being is a constant one!

      Reply
  9. Krystie says

    November 4, 2016 at 1:33 am

    Go you!❤️❤️❤️

    Reply
  10. Kelsey Beam says

    November 4, 2016 at 4:37 pm

    I have three loads of laundry to fold……. for two people! I wish you luck on your folding endeavors.

    Reply
    • Nicole Warner says

      November 4, 2016 at 4:49 pm

      Send help! 😉

      Reply

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About Me
I am Nicole Fergesen, mama to six, born and raised New Englander and new Iowan. I believe in Jesus, am obsessed with my family and homemaking, and love functional fashion. I also dabble in home design and relentlessly find beauty in everything. Wife to Dustin, widow of Marcus, and working on blending a family and finding grace in the journey.
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