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November 16, 2020

Christmas Gift Guide for Men (Husbands, Boyfriend, Dad, Father-in-Law, Brother, Grandpa, Uncle, Boss)

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Is it just me, or are the guys impossible to shop for? Not only are they difficult, but it seems like when they want something, they just buy it. So there’s never anything on their “want” list. Well, I have done my research and asked the important men in my life and I finally figured out what they really want! Scroll down to see my choices on my Christmas gift guide that are sure to win them over.

Gadget

  • Phone Sanitizer
    • We have all heard the statistic that our phones are dirtier than a toilet… especially nowadays when we are even more concerned with germs, he is sure to love this! This sanitizes your gadget with UV light’ practical but also super cool. Also doubles as a charger AND aromatherapy device!
  • Noise Canceling Headphones
    • What guy wouldn’t want some peace and quiet… these ones also connect to Alexa- pretty slick! These ones are a much lower price point and have thousands of almost five-star ratings.
  • AirPods Pro
    • Dustin has these and he will tell you how awesome they are! The noise canceling is very valuable, especially for those working from home with kids/dogs/distractions. Or even for use on an airplane! Superior sound quality and functionality.
  • iPad
    • iPads are one of those gadgets that you aren’t sure if you will use it, but once you get it you didn’t know how you lived without it. Ours are invaluable for the adults and kids alike, from piano lessons to art tutorials.
  • Amazon Echo
    • Yes, he needs these! If he doesn’t have one already, this is a game changer for being organized, hearing the news, watching a tutorial on how to carve meat on Thanksgiving, you name it! We have this one in our kitchen and it is so useful for setting timers for food or adding food to a grocery list.
  • Sonos Speaker System
    • Again, another thing I learned from Dustin. He had these and I am blown away at the sound quality! We used to stream music on our Echos, but switched to these around the house (still using the echos in certain locations, because obviously.)
  • Cordless Screwdriver
    • Add this to the list of things I never knew existed. How handy would this be though? Any guy would love to add this to his toolbox.
  • Portable Speaker
    • These speakers are waterproof, portable, and have great sound quality. Great gift idea for the boat, golf cart, garage, wherever he is!
    • Also consider this carrying case for it to attach to wherever.
  • Laser Distance Measure
    • Add this to the list of things you didn’t know you needed! These are super handy for all sorts of measuring projects.
  • Pac Man Arcade
    • Take him back to his glory days!
  • Wifi Camera
    • This camera is beyond cheap- only $25! It has excellent quality and can compete with the $$$ cameras.

Experience

  • Restaurant Gift Certificate
    • In my dad’s own words, he claims a restaurant gift card is his idea of the perfect gift! Combine it with time with family and friends, and it is a surefire way to please him on Christmas.
  • Car race certificate
    • Is your guy into fast cars? Why not let him experience driving his dream car!
  • Trip to the shooting range
    • This would be a fun activity on their own or to go together with the boys. Let him brush up on his skills!
  • Sex Advent Calendar
    • Would any guy on earth dislike this gift? Probably not… and it’s highly reviewed! Pair it with some massage oil and he won’t want to wait to open the rest of the gifts…
  • Golf Lessons
    • A golfer will always admit they don’t golf as much as they want. Buy them lessons or just a gift certificate to their favorite course and supply store!
  • Parkour Park
    • Is your guy athletic? This would be a unique and fun gift!
  • Spartan Race
    • Speaking of athletic guys, sign him up for a race! Marcus and I did a Spartan race years ago and it was such a fun experience.

Grooming

  • Beard trimmer
    • Dustin has a full beard which I loooove, but I never understood the maintenance that goes into it to keep it manageable. He has one of these that works great and keeps it trim!
  • Supplies
    • Stock him up on his favorites! Grab him some shampoo, hair gel, body soap, anything that he would appreciate not having to buy himself!
  • Working Hands
    • For the guy who is hard on his hands- this stuff is magic! And not at all girly which he will appreciate.
  • Hair Cut Gift Certificate
    • Do you know where he gets his hair done? Get him a gift card! Or, find a super cool place nearby (Scissors & Scotch here!) that he wouldn’t be up to trying on his own accord. Spoil him!
  • SteelBee
    • Does he use a razor? This inexpensive gadget will make the blade last longer! Also protects your razor for travel (or for little hands in the shower!).

Apparel

  • Nice pullover
    • These are a cold weather closet staple. The look great and keep you warm!
  • Good quality socks
    • This retailer has my favorite socks for men. They fit well and have fun patterns, perfect for the guy who wants a pop of personality at work or at church!
  • Cufflinks
    • Cufflinks aren’t something he will wear all the time, but when he needs them, it is great to have a nice pair! Plus, he will think of you when he does.
  • Sweatshirt
    • Dustin asked me specifically why this sweatshirt wasn’t on the list! It is his favorite. It is currently on clearance so make sure you grab it right away if his size is still there!
  • Classic Street Sneakers
    • You can’t go wrong with these! Great for the fashion-conscious guy, or maybe for the one who needs a nudge in that direction…
  • Toiletry Bag
    • Handpicked by Dustin, this one is gorgeous and practical for the traveling man.
  • Carhartt Beanie
    • These are all the rage lately, but for good reason. Great quality and awesome price point!
  • Nomatic Backpack
    • Does your man still use a briefcase? Backpacks are all the rage now, and far more functional. This one he will love!
  • Personalized Socks
    • These are amazing! They would also be awesome gifts for groomsmen.

Home

  • Jerky Box
    • Every single guy I know loves jerky. All else fails, get him a subscription!
  • Traeger Grill
    • He is sure to love this! It is a big gift that you could go in on with a few people. Guaranteed to love!
  • Spice Blends & Rubs
    • Is he a grilling man? These are sure to get him excited for the grilling season!
  • Craft Beer Subscription
    • Does he love beer? He will LOVE this!
  • Make Your Own Hot Sauce
    • My brother and his friends, for some reason, are obsessed with hot sauce. How awesome would it be to let them create their own torture!
  • Yeti Hopper Cooler
    • The perfect portable cooler size! It’s got to be a Yeti. Trust me.
  • Fire Pit
    • Fire? Yes. He will love it!
  • Home Security System
    • The protector of the family would love another way to keep everyone safe! These are highly reviewed and a good price point.
  • Outdoor Projector
    • Can you just picture next summer with movies outside. fireflies, s’mores… sounds like perfection! This one comes with the screen too.
  • Lutron Light Switches
    • Did anyone grow up with a dad who was always complaining that the lights were left on? Well, this solves that! The house we are in now has these and we will never go back. Control the lights from an app on your phone- so that means turn them all off with the touch of a button! Create groups or a schedule… I am telling you. He will thank you for this one forever!
  • Desk Writing Mat
    • Does he work from home? These desk pads are great looking but also functional.
  • Leather Valet Case
    • The perfect way to contain all the knick knacks on his nightstand or closet! This is beautiful and can be a nice way to place his phone, keys, wallet, or whatever else he carries.
  • Dream Big
    • Inspire him! Bob Goff is an incredible author and this book has thousands of five star reviews.
  • Magnetic Wristband
    • Does he work around the house a lot? Or on the car? Even if he doesn’t, this may be the perfect, inexpensive gift. Catch loose metal parts while not losing your groove.
  • Yeti Rambler Coffee Tumbler
    • For the guy who grabs coffee on the go, these are great quality and will keep his coffee warm!
  • Dad Jokes
    • What dad doesn’t like a good dad joke? Awesome stocking stuffer, and only $15.
  • Yeti Multi Tool & Bottle Opener
    • Again, you can never go wrong with anything Yeti! This is a great stocking stuffer and has so many uses.
  • Bike Rack/Garage Organizer
    • I got this for our home when we moved to Iowa and it is a game changer, especially if you have a lot of kids! Every man appreciates an organized garage.

Fitness

  • Peloton
    • Is he big into fitness? He will for sure enjoy a Peloton! Either a spin bike or treadmill. Save the gym costs every month and work out well and on your own time. Use referral code X2XEBC for $100 off!
  • Workout gear
    • Why not grab him a good pair of running shorts? Or how about this dri-fit tee, workout socks, or comfortable sweatshirt or sweatpants. (Good sweatpants are a guaranteed win!).
  • Weight Set
    • Since gyms are a little touch and go right now, why not build his personal home gym? You could start with these weights, this medicine ball, this box, and barbell.
  • No gym at all? Get him started with the basics of a home gym area!
    • Flooring
    • Mirror
    • Fan
    • Speaker

Service

  • Car detailing
    • Most men’s most prized possession. Help him keep it clean and in great condition!
  • In a similar vein, buy him a car wash subscription from a local company!
  • Massage
    • The gift of touch, in professional stress relieving form!
  • Lawn Service
    • Does he take pride in his lawn? Take the pressure off of him!
  • Snow Removal
    • Snowblowing after a storm is time that he won’t always have. Sign him up for a plow service!

Looking for more gift guides? How about gifts for your woman? Or for the children in your life?

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I am Nicole Fergesen, mama to four, new Iowan and part time New Hampshire girl. I believe in Jesus, live on coffee, and love functional fashion. I also dabble in home design and relentlessly find beauty in everything. Wife to Dustin, widow of Marcus, blending a family and finding grace in the journey.

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nicolefergesen

January 15. Miss you every single day. Today even January 15. Miss you every single day. Today even more, remembering the pain of that day, that moment. Wrapped in my dad’s arms, hearing those impossible words. 

I miss how he would make you feel like you were the most special person in the world. Strangers would feel his instant connection. His attitude, his view on life, always positive and exuberant. He loved me fiercely. His children were his world. It’s so sad to me they won’t get the opportunity to grow up knowing him.

Words fail me today. Spending the day playing hookie and enjoying family time. Remembering this incredible man who we love so much. 

Love you forever, Marcus. 

#missyou #ichoosejoy #haveanamazingday #heaveniversary #youngwidow #iloveyou #deathday #rememberingday #heavengainedanangel #widow #brokenheart
When life gives you lemons (ahem... clementines), When life gives you lemons (ahem... clementines), how do you react? 
How do you keep going when life isn’t what you wanted or expected? It’s keeping hope that it will all work out for good. It’s trusting that God has a plan beyond the one you had. Bad situations don’t mean a bad life. 

When things aren’t going my way, I often think:
“What am I learning here?” 
“Is this something I can control or change?”
“How can good come from this?”

While not every situation has a clear or positive answer, the goal is to not get stuck in our head and the downward spiral that will destroy us. The truth is, most situations we have very little control over. BUT. We can control how we respond. And that might mean putting someone else’s needs above our own. It might mean choosing their happiness over our own. Or even though the situation seems all negative, forcing yourself to find a positive. Teaching ourselves that emotions are important, but it’s important to not let them rule us. 

I’m reading Marcus’ book to the kids this week, and this quote resonated so much with me: “I believe there is a purpose in every circumstance of life, and it is my responsibility to love that purpose and engage with it- to participate in it rather than resist it- no matter what it may be. In fact, that purpose is often simply not clear in the short term, which is another way that faith holds life together. Faith understands that eventually, in time or after some time, the purpose will be clear.”

I tell my kids all the time that while we lost someone so special us, we gained understanding. Now we can help others we wouldn’t have been able to empathize with nearly as much. We can be sad and still do good. 

True perspective. 

Love that we are still learning from that man. 

So seize the day and make some freaking lemonade! 

I posted our yearly recap on the blog a few days ago. I love looking back on our year and seeing all we did, especially this whirlwind of a year!

Top is from @elegantees- go give them a follow and support and incredible mission! Everything else linked here: http://liketk.it/35RqI #liketkit @liketoknow.it #makelemonade #keepyoureyesup #positivevibes #beablessing #liftothersup
“Your dad would be so proud of you.” Thank yo “Your dad would be so proud of you.”

Thank you to the parents who teach empathy and kindness. To connect even when they don’t completely understand or relate. Our kids wanted to share about their daddy in heaven to their classmates this week, so they chose to bring their daddy books in. (It is SO good and healthy for them to talk and share about their daddy!) Today Scarlett shared her favorite pictures and stories with her friends, and one friend uttered those words. I wish I could have had Scarlett’s expression on video when describing the kind words her friend said. She was straight up beaming, and what a beautiful thing for another 7 year old to build her up. Scarlett was vulnerable to be sharing a part of her that hurts but is so special, and to have it be received with kindness is the greatest gift that could have been given to her. 

This girl has fought her way through some really hard places. She is learning how to use what she’s gone through and lost to help others. She will always wrestle with certain things, but there is one thing I am sure of:

He is proud. 

Keep raising great humans, friends. 

#raisinggoodhumans #positivevibes #raisingarrows #blessothers #beablessing #encouragement #liftothersup #childgrief #helpothers #makelemonade #igdaily #dailysmile
I don’t pretend to have it all figured out. Life I don’t pretend to have it all figured out. Life is complicated, hard, and the busyness of our current season makes it hard to process all the things. 
So I went back to therapy today. And it was awful. And wonderful. 
Awful because my painful wounds were exposed and poked and it resurfaced so much trauma. But it was also wonderful because the simple mention of some topics cued instant emotions, reminding me that they obviously need tending to. It allowed my words and emotions to flow freely, some of which I didn’t even realize were on my mind. A neutral sounding board and safe place to help process some really hard and complicated things. 

For a long time, grief and loss was all I thought or wrote about. And now that I’m remarried, I don’t want to give the illusion that all that pain and sadness disappeared. The truth is that time does heal, but the wounds will never go away. While grief isn’t always on the forefront of my mind, it is a part of who I am. I’m forever changed because of our loss. And certain dates and reminders are a jarring reminder of what we’ve lost. I’ve been mentally preparing myself for months for next week, and I’m still dreading it. 

The hard parts won’t last. These things become a part of who we are, and talking about them helps us to release the control they have over us. While it hurts at first, it helps us work through processing it all and eventually the pain will subside. 

Dustin and I are proactively going in a couple weeks too. Why not start our foundation off strong, especially considering the hard things we’ve encountered so far and now blending a family. Let’s normalize mental health and therapy. We can’t always control what happens to us, but we can control how we respond. Admitting you need help is a sign of strength, not weakness. 

#ichoosejoy #haveanamazingday #missyou #mentalhealthawareness #grief #griefjourney #remarriedwidow #ithurts #missyou #loveneverfades #youngwidow #griefrecovery #therapy #vulnerability #storytime #iloveyou
I never thought that I’d be so emotional about E I never thought that I’d be so emotional about Eloise, our youngest, going to school. She’s gone to part time school for the past couple of years, but we decided it would be better for her to be enrolled full time. Since we made the decision last month I’ve been all over the place! I mean, a full day with NO kids at home? Imagine all I could accomplish! Then I’d be immediately reminded of the fact that yes, I’d have no kids at home all day. A few months from now will mark 8 years as a stay at home mom. My whole existence for as long as I can remember has revolved around these little people under foot, and now they’re to the age where they are thriving more under the care of a teacher. I was so surprised at my emotions because as each child approached school age, it felt right and I embraced them at their stage of growth. (I’m not one of those “don’t grow up” people. Or am I now...). Now that they’re all in school, it’s just so weird. 
I am excited for a few hours a day to be truly productive instead of my attention always split with the demands of the kids. I’m excited to not wear all the hats at once for a minute, trying to maintain the house, teach the kids, work, help others.... And I know I will be more refreshed and engaged when they get home. But it’s still so hard!
Tell me I’m not the only one? 
So excuse me while I sob into my breakfast while also being so excited how clean my house is and how much I’ve accomplished before noon 😅

Photo by @lindseynicole_photo hair by @krystle__walker #alltheemotions #wedding #ighappy #emotional #happybutsad #growingpains #blendedfamily #blendedfamilylife #momlife #sisters #siblinglove #godanswersprayer #family #instagood #beautiful #happy #sad
A year filled with so much turmoil for most, and y A year filled with so much turmoil for most, and yet so much joy and excitement for us. So many unknowns and moments of fear and panic, and God delivered exactly what we needed at just the right time. Every time. It was such a gift to weather the storm that is 2020 with this incredible guy by my side. 
I love to reflect, especially at the end of the year. And this year was an adventure, to say the least! 

This year I:
Rang in the new year in Stowe with friends 
Took a trip to Cali
Trained for a marathon 
Met the governor 
Met a boy 
Got engaged
Sold two houses 
Moved across the country 
Organized a benefit race
Got married
Gained a daughter
Honeymooned in AZ & UT
Bought a home

We are excited to ring in the new year quietly with our family tonight. True to the rest of the year, we weren’t able to host the New Years party we were planning. But as always, it all works out the way it should. Early bedtime and more house organizing sounds just perfect ❤️

Just a reminder that God’s timing is greater than ours. 
He cares for us always. 
He knows the desires of our hearts. 

Hold on to those highs. Live and love intensely ✌🏼❤️

Here’s to a new year and more adventures ✨

Photo by @bekahlee33 
#newyear #2020 #reflections #highlights #highlightreel #igdaily #husbandandwife #ighappy #adventure #lifeisgood #happy #happynewyear #loveyou #
Now that we are officially settled into our new ho Now that we are officially settled into our new house in Iowa, I am dreaming of all the ways we can refresh and upgrade it, and master closets are high on that list. This closet will forever serve as my inspiration! And also reminiscing of warmer weather where I can wear these summer shoes again 😔
Check out the full post of the final result on the blog (ahem... three years later...) link in my profile! http://liketk.it/34TQV photo by @bekahlee33  #liketkit @liketoknow.it #closet #closetroom #whitecloset #dreamcloset #inspo #shoe #shoewall #designer #gucci #toryburch #jeffreycampbell #ninewest #summer #summershoe #sandals #warmerweather #vacationmode #inspiration #customcloset #reveal
“We celebrate at Christmas not only that Christ “We celebrate at Christmas not only that Christ was born, but that He lived.”
Christmas morning 🎄🎁(yesterday for us!). 
Only delayed 9 hours on our road trip due to unexpected whiteout conditions 🥶 nothing like waking up to a super white Christmas, even though we will end up in the northeast late tonight where it’s 60 degrees! Merry Christmas everyone! 

I linked the kids’ jammies on my @liketoknow.it- awesome after Christmas sales are starting! These are my favorites and last for years. Best quality and fit and made to last when the kids grow! Go follow me there, just search @nicolefergesen 🛍

#merrychristmas #christmas #christmas2020 #christmasmorning #heisthereasonfortheseason #family #igkids #cute #pajamas #roadtrip #christmasvacation #christmasmagic #christmastree #loveyou
Merry Christmas from our family to yours! @dferg Merry Christmas from our family to yours! 

@dfergesen #christmascard #christmas2020 #joy #light #family #chapter2 #blended #blendedfamily #happy #christmas #secondchances #love #loveyou #myworld #tistheseason #merrychristmas #joytotheworld #basicinvite @basicinvite photo by @lindseynicole_photo hair by @krystle__walker makeup by @beautecallmakeup @millfalls
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January 15. Miss you every single day. Today even January 15. Miss you every single day. Today even more, remembering the pain of that day, that moment. Wrapped in my dad’s arms, hearing those impossible words. 

I miss how he would make you feel like you were the most special person in the world. Strangers would feel his instant connection. His attitude, his view on life, always positive and exuberant. He loved me fiercely. His children were his world. It’s so sad to me they won’t get the opportunity to grow up knowing him.

Words fail me today. Spending the day playing hookie and enjoying family time. Remembering this incredible man who we love so much. 

Love you forever, Marcus. 

#missyou #ichoosejoy #haveanamazingday #heaveniversary #youngwidow #iloveyou #deathday #rememberingday #heavengainedanangel #widow #brokenheart
When life gives you lemons (ahem... clementines), When life gives you lemons (ahem... clementines), how do you react? 
How do you keep going when life isn’t what you wanted or expected? It’s keeping hope that it will all work out for good. It’s trusting that God has a plan beyond the one you had. Bad situations don’t mean a bad life. 

When things aren’t going my way, I often think:
“What am I learning here?” 
“Is this something I can control or change?”
“How can good come from this?”

While not every situation has a clear or positive answer, the goal is to not get stuck in our head and the downward spiral that will destroy us. The truth is, most situations we have very little control over. BUT. We can control how we respond. And that might mean putting someone else’s needs above our own. It might mean choosing their happiness over our own. Or even though the situation seems all negative, forcing yourself to find a positive. Teaching ourselves that emotions are important, but it’s important to not let them rule us. 

I’m reading Marcus’ book to the kids this week, and this quote resonated so much with me: “I believe there is a purpose in every circumstance of life, and it is my responsibility to love that purpose and engage with it- to participate in it rather than resist it- no matter what it may be. In fact, that purpose is often simply not clear in the short term, which is another way that faith holds life together. Faith understands that eventually, in time or after some time, the purpose will be clear.”

I tell my kids all the time that while we lost someone so special us, we gained understanding. Now we can help others we wouldn’t have been able to empathize with nearly as much. We can be sad and still do good. 

True perspective. 

Love that we are still learning from that man. 

So seize the day and make some freaking lemonade! 

I posted our yearly recap on the blog a few days ago. I love looking back on our year and seeing all we did, especially this whirlwind of a year!

Top is from @elegantees- go give them a follow and support and incredible mission! Everything else linked here: http://liketk.it/35RqI #liketkit @liketoknow.it #makelemonade #keepyoureyesup #positivevibes #beablessing #liftothersup
“Your dad would be so proud of you.” Thank yo “Your dad would be so proud of you.”

Thank you to the parents who teach empathy and kindness. To connect even when they don’t completely understand or relate. Our kids wanted to share about their daddy in heaven to their classmates this week, so they chose to bring their daddy books in. (It is SO good and healthy for them to talk and share about their daddy!) Today Scarlett shared her favorite pictures and stories with her friends, and one friend uttered those words. I wish I could have had Scarlett’s expression on video when describing the kind words her friend said. She was straight up beaming, and what a beautiful thing for another 7 year old to build her up. Scarlett was vulnerable to be sharing a part of her that hurts but is so special, and to have it be received with kindness is the greatest gift that could have been given to her. 

This girl has fought her way through some really hard places. She is learning how to use what she’s gone through and lost to help others. She will always wrestle with certain things, but there is one thing I am sure of:

He is proud. 

Keep raising great humans, friends. 

#raisinggoodhumans #positivevibes #raisingarrows #blessothers #beablessing #encouragement #liftothersup #childgrief #helpothers #makelemonade #igdaily #dailysmile
I don’t pretend to have it all figured out. Life I don’t pretend to have it all figured out. Life is complicated, hard, and the busyness of our current season makes it hard to process all the things. 
So I went back to therapy today. And it was awful. And wonderful. 
Awful because my painful wounds were exposed and poked and it resurfaced so much trauma. But it was also wonderful because the simple mention of some topics cued instant emotions, reminding me that they obviously need tending to. It allowed my words and emotions to flow freely, some of which I didn’t even realize were on my mind. A neutral sounding board and safe place to help process some really hard and complicated things. 

For a long time, grief and loss was all I thought or wrote about. And now that I’m remarried, I don’t want to give the illusion that all that pain and sadness disappeared. The truth is that time does heal, but the wounds will never go away. While grief isn’t always on the forefront of my mind, it is a part of who I am. I’m forever changed because of our loss. And certain dates and reminders are a jarring reminder of what we’ve lost. I’ve been mentally preparing myself for months for next week, and I’m still dreading it. 

The hard parts won’t last. These things become a part of who we are, and talking about them helps us to release the control they have over us. While it hurts at first, it helps us work through processing it all and eventually the pain will subside. 

Dustin and I are proactively going in a couple weeks too. Why not start our foundation off strong, especially considering the hard things we’ve encountered so far and now blending a family. Let’s normalize mental health and therapy. We can’t always control what happens to us, but we can control how we respond. Admitting you need help is a sign of strength, not weakness. 

#ichoosejoy #haveanamazingday #missyou #mentalhealthawareness #grief #griefjourney #remarriedwidow #ithurts #missyou #loveneverfades #youngwidow #griefrecovery #therapy #vulnerability #storytime #iloveyou
I never thought that I’d be so emotional about E I never thought that I’d be so emotional about Eloise, our youngest, going to school. She’s gone to part time school for the past couple of years, but we decided it would be better for her to be enrolled full time. Since we made the decision last month I’ve been all over the place! I mean, a full day with NO kids at home? Imagine all I could accomplish! Then I’d be immediately reminded of the fact that yes, I’d have no kids at home all day. A few months from now will mark 8 years as a stay at home mom. My whole existence for as long as I can remember has revolved around these little people under foot, and now they’re to the age where they are thriving more under the care of a teacher. I was so surprised at my emotions because as each child approached school age, it felt right and I embraced them at their stage of growth. (I’m not one of those “don’t grow up” people. Or am I now...). Now that they’re all in school, it’s just so weird. 
I am excited for a few hours a day to be truly productive instead of my attention always split with the demands of the kids. I’m excited to not wear all the hats at once for a minute, trying to maintain the house, teach the kids, work, help others.... And I know I will be more refreshed and engaged when they get home. But it’s still so hard!
Tell me I’m not the only one? 
So excuse me while I sob into my breakfast while also being so excited how clean my house is and how much I’ve accomplished before noon 😅

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A year filled with so much turmoil for most, and y A year filled with so much turmoil for most, and yet so much joy and excitement for us. So many unknowns and moments of fear and panic, and God delivered exactly what we needed at just the right time. Every time. It was such a gift to weather the storm that is 2020 with this incredible guy by my side. 
I love to reflect, especially at the end of the year. And this year was an adventure, to say the least! 

This year I:
Rang in the new year in Stowe with friends 
Took a trip to Cali
Trained for a marathon 
Met the governor 
Met a boy 
Got engaged
Sold two houses 
Moved across the country 
Organized a benefit race
Got married
Gained a daughter
Honeymooned in AZ & UT
Bought a home

We are excited to ring in the new year quietly with our family tonight. True to the rest of the year, we weren’t able to host the New Years party we were planning. But as always, it all works out the way it should. Early bedtime and more house organizing sounds just perfect ❤️

Just a reminder that God’s timing is greater than ours. 
He cares for us always. 
He knows the desires of our hearts. 

Hold on to those highs. Live and love intensely ✌🏼❤️

Here’s to a new year and more adventures ✨

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Now that we are officially settled into our new ho Now that we are officially settled into our new house in Iowa, I am dreaming of all the ways we can refresh and upgrade it, and master closets are high on that list. This closet will forever serve as my inspiration! And also reminiscing of warmer weather where I can wear these summer shoes again 😔
Check out the full post of the final result on the blog (ahem... three years later...) link in my profile! http://liketk.it/34TQV photo by @bekahlee33  #liketkit @liketoknow.it #closet #closetroom #whitecloset #dreamcloset #inspo #shoe #shoewall #designer #gucci #toryburch #jeffreycampbell #ninewest #summer #summershoe #sandals #warmerweather #vacationmode #inspiration #customcloset #reveal
“We celebrate at Christmas not only that Christ “We celebrate at Christmas not only that Christ was born, but that He lived.”
Christmas morning 🎄🎁(yesterday for us!). 
Only delayed 9 hours on our road trip due to unexpected whiteout conditions 🥶 nothing like waking up to a super white Christmas, even though we will end up in the northeast late tonight where it’s 60 degrees! Merry Christmas everyone! 

I linked the kids’ jammies on my @liketoknow.it- awesome after Christmas sales are starting! These are my favorites and last for years. Best quality and fit and made to last when the kids grow! Go follow me there, just search @nicolefergesen 🛍

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